Security Tips

"Marriages are forever" and it is important that you choose the right person. Take care to ensure your safety while searching for a life partner.

Please go through the page to understand how you can have a safe and secure search.

Note : Your contact information (Only Mobile Number) as posted on the site is available only to our Paid Members.

Do's

- Read the correspondences / profiles carefully and ensure that they are not superfluous / unrealistic.
- Take your time in judging a person and drawing your conclusions.
- Ask your parents / friends / any unbiased relation to also scan through the correspondence / profiles and put forth their observations.
- Be sure you find the person to be trustworthy before you go fullswing and send across all your contact information.
- Always close your browser and log out from the Website once you have finished surfing the net to prevent other people gaining access to your information and correspondence.

Don'ts

- Don't provide your personal contact information like name, residential address, place of work or any other identifying information in your initial messages.
- Don't be drawn by the looks and the profile content alone. All that glitters is not Gold! - Never go to meet at unearthly hours.
- Don't let any person pressurize you to reveal your personal information.
- Don't have the prospective match visit you at your home.
- Movies are not a place for the first meeting.

Why you must not reveal too much too soon?

Be cautious in your communication and take your time in getting to know the person you're interested in. Don't give out very personal details like credit card and bank account information. Watch out for people who ask unwanted questions or vague about their answers. There are quite a lot of people who are waiting to fool you. One slip at your end can leave you at cross roads. Don't let anyone leave a hole in your pocket!!

Where you must not have your first meeting?

Do not meet alone until you know the person really well. If you're meeting for the first time, try meeting in public places like coffee shops and avoid meeting in hotel rooms or any private place. Also keep your friends/family informed before you set out. .

E-mail ID / Mobile Number Can I Used ?

We suggest you to create a new Email account just for matrimonial purposes instead of using your regular IDs / Official IDs. This Email ID only at least during the initial stages.

If you feel that you are ready for the next level then you can have a word on phone. You may also chose to let your parents speak to them / their family members. Ensure the usage of a pre-paid mobile number and this could also be used exclusively for marriage purpose only. Ensure that the number provided to you is genuine and is not a pay phone where you end up footing the bills.

How to recognise a money scam and keep away?

You can recognise a money scam when members ask for money. Beware of such people and do not pay anything for visa purposes or any such issues. Never discuss financial matters with someone you just met and hardly know. It could be highly unsafe.

Why you must involve your family?

Marriage is a union of two families and not just two people. Keep your family informed about all your proceedings and involve them in your decision-making to be on the safe side. Make sure you introduce the prospect to your family. .

Why your safety is also your responsibility?

Getting married is a lifetime decision and no one can determine what's best for you than yourself, so it's also your responsibility to ensure your own safety and take precautionary steps. You can also take the help of Pre-Matrimonial Investigations Agency. These agency inspect on the character, nature, education, age, business/employment details, criminal clearance check, sources of income and family background check.

What do I do when I see a fraudulent profile?

When you see a fraudulent profile you should inform us about it by reporting violation so we may check on the profile and take necessary action against the member.

What must I do when someone keeps harassing me?

When someone harasses you, you should report violation so we may put an end to it by taking necessary action against the miscreant. .

How to report violation?

You can report violation by sending a mail to us at violation@varvadhu21.com

Do I have to reveal my identity when I report violation?

Yes, it is mandatory that you reveal your identity while reporting violation.

Will members know when you view their profile?

No, members will not know when you view their profile. .

Why you must keep your login details confidential?

You should keep your login details confidential, as your profile is your responsibility and can be used against you if it falls into the wrong hands.

Are the phone numbers on the site authentic?

VarVadhu21.com displays only verified phone numbers. VarVadhu21.com insists that all the members verify their phone number through its phone verification service.

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